Somatic Therapy and EMDR: Why Your Body Holds the Key to Abuse Recovery
For many survivors of abuse, traditional "talk therapy" eventually hits a plateau. You may have spent years articulating what happened to you, deconstructing the abuser's tactics, and understanding your triggers intellectually. Yet, despite this high level of insight, your body remains stuck in the past. When triggered, your heart still races, your throat tightens, and that familiar wave of panic or numbness—the "somatic freeze"—takes over as if the trauma were happening in the present moment. While many understand the neurobiology of trauma bonds, resolving the physical 'anchor' requires a bottom-up approach.
How Abusive Relationships Start & Why We Stay
People stay in abusive relationships not due to weakness, but due to a powerful biological phenomenon called a Trauma Bond. This occurs when the brain becomes "addicted" to the dopamine rush of reconciliation following the cortisol spike of abuse, creating a cycle that is as physically difficult to break as a chemical dependency.

